Wednesday, January 19, 2011

The Love Language: Ways to Let Him Know You Love Him

Do you want to express your unconditional love to your partner? Are you thinking of what words will best describe the intensity of the love you have for him? Do you want to use the love language appropriately to let him know that you really love him?
The love language has always been effective in breaking barrier among people who feel scared to let someone know about their true feelings. If you are having second thoughts on whether you should let him know of your love or not, you should bear in mind that keeping it to yourself will only make you feel depressed. You should muster the courage to let him know that you love him and that you care for him. This can be the only revelation that he is waiting from you as well. When you are able to deal with your own struggles then you can bravely share your love for someone without hesitations. Here are some of examples of the love language that you can use to convey your heart to someone you truly love.
Way #1: Invest in Quality Time: This type of commitment to someone who is dear to your heart is the love language that you can apply to make him feel that he is special in your life. Whenever you have the chance to be together, you should make an effort to spend quality time with him. You should take it as an opportunity for you to share your world and more of yourself with him. It will enable him to know your real feelings and will make him feel that he can trust your love.
Way #2: Sweet Gesture of Love: The love language is not just about vocally expressing your feelings. It can also be done by physical touch. The silent way of expressing the intensity of your love is often more effective in letting him know that he has someone who can give him the love that he has been longing for. A simple hug or holding hands can be equal to a thousand words of love. A tight hug after not seeing him for a few days or even hours will let him know that you have missed him a lot and you are happy to be with him. You should never ignore the sweet simple gestures that will strengthen his faith on your feelings for him.
Way #3: Assertion of Love: Wouldn't it feel great if the acts of love that you are showing to your special someone is intensified by confirming it through your heartfelt words? Whispering the words, "I love you so much" in his ears when you are together might be common but it can certainly mean a lot to him. It will not only make him feel elated and special but will also boost his confidence. This only shows that the love language can greatly affect your relationship with your partner.
Way #4: Unwavering Love: The love language that will best prove your true feelings for your partner is the unchanging love that you have for him. You can do this by showing him that you will stand by his side no matter how difficult the trials that you will both encounter in your relationship.

Addicted To Your Love - How To Love Your Partner More

Can you honestly say to your partner this, I am addicted to your love? Do you think you are falling more and more deeply with him? Can you honestly say that you can't imagine a life without him? Well, if you said yes, you are most certainly in love. You are probably one of the luckiest girl in the world right now. You know why? It is because you have found love in someone and you definitely deserve it. I know what you are feeling right now. You have this magical feeling, something that you can't contain and you are all smiles.
Well, you do have to return the favor. You have to also let him feel that you love him. You have to make him feel special like what he does to you. You have to show him that you are deeply grateful of what he has done to your life. You have to thank him for all the wonderful things he has done for you. You have to show him that you love him more and more each day. How do you do that? Well, here's how.
1. Surprise him.
Knowing that he has been so great to you, make things extra special. Wake him up with a bed and breakfast. If you know his favorite food for breakfast, prepare those. This is something special because it entails a sacrifice in your part. You have to wake up an hour earlier. If he has this favorite cup of coffee at a local coffee shop, you have to get it. If you don't know his favorites, cook some pancakes. Pair it up with some fresh berries and a good maple syrup. Try to include some whipping cream too. Also, you might want to cook some bacon too. He will surely adore you more if you do that.
2. Listen to him.
Communication plays an important role in a relationship. You must learn how to listen. When he talks, zip your mouth. Allow him to convey what he wants to convey. Allow him to share what he feels. A relationship greatly evolves around a good communication system. It's not healthy if you solely do the talking.
3. Get intimate.
Make it a point to get some physical connection. You must not let a day without touching him. You can hold his hand while you walk to your car. Brush his hair up when he gazes at you. Massage his back when he had a hard day at work. Hug him and tell him that his day will turn out fine. Lastly, save some alone time for both of you. You can make love with your partner to steam things up as well as level up your intimacy.
4. Give him his own time.
You should not spend the entire 24 hours with him. Let him have his own time. If you don't give him time alone, he will feel suffocated. Don't show up all the time. Give him time to miss you.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

In a Relationship: How to Spice Up Your Relationships

Most of the time when two couples are dating, whether they are in a relationship for a brief time period or for a long time, things can get pretty dry a time.
I would even admit, that when I was dating this certain girl back in the days, I was only seeing her for about 5 months, and things started to get boring and dry, it almost feels like, me and her didn't know what to do. We were still in love with each other, but things seemed very, very awkward at times.
So how do you break this moment of awkwardness? And replace it with less awkward moments. I mean it man, if you don't do anything about this, things might get even more and more awkward and inelegant for a lack of a better term.
And your romance between him or her, will even look more unpleasant as time goes by. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you'll never have any awkward moments, all I'm saying is that you should find a way to avoid this awkward moments! Especial if it's actually causing you to grow about from each other!
However one exception to the rule is that if these awkward moments are bring you two closer together, well do what ever works!
However I still think the best ways to solve any of these problems pertaining to a dry and boring relationship is to find a powerful way or several ways to spice up your relationship.
First of all get to know him or her for about a month or two, and when you start dating, do the usual routine that couples always do, go to the movies, take a walk around the park or around the block, or go see a concert/sporting event.
Then to spice things up a little, do something together that is totally out of the ordinary, like go to the zoo or take a cab ride around the city just for fun, the cab driver, might think you're a little crazy, but what the heck, your relationship is more important than what other people think, sometimes this can spark a little laughter between the two of you.
Go order a dessert at a coffee shop like a peace if cake, and you both eat from the same plate. I tried this one time with one of my dates, and it was so funny, we were hitting forks together, couldn't decide who gets the next morsel. I actually remember that day, and that totally spiced up our relationship and above all it was somewhat romantic.
Go to the amusement park. There's nothing better than going back to the time when you're just a kid enjoying life at the amusement park, going on all the rides, screaming, laughing and having fun.
Now, when I took this same girl to the amusement park one day, I found out that, when she laughed and screamed it almost sounded like she was retarded, I guess in a child like manner. But I felt more in love with her after that, and that totally spiced up our relationship for a while...
So you never know, just by doing the unusual can work in spicing up a relationship and falling more in love, however keep it in a reasonable boundary, you don't want to go too crazy!

Keeping Relationships

Have you ever asked friends and family to help you save your relationship? There are times in life when you let go of the thread that binds you and your partner. There are also times when you want to mend the pieces of the broken puzzle once more. Situations like these occur everyday that are tough emotionally and mentally for every kind of person walking in the world we live in.
Communication goes a long way in a relationship so speaking your mind and openly spilling out your thoughts to your partner may give them a better idea of what both of you need and want. In the other hand misunderstandings can lead to broken promises and unfaithfulness, making it even more difficult for you both to heal the scars that have been done and at the same time creating new ones to form.We must control ourselves when a few mistakes are done and not overreact in any kind of way or manner, because experiencing and learning from our mistakes makes us stronger as an individual and as a couple.
We must face the truth and go through the consequences of a loving relationship, that maybe falling apart by learning from it and moving on. Problems will run its course in love like cheese on a pizza, so stay strong and face the challenges that may come ahead. Like the saying goes "The best things in life are free" laughter, tears, love, and the time we spend together are often the most rewarding part of relationships.