Make Him Fall in Love Hard

How can I make him fall in love? It's the perennial question, isn't it? Women fall head over heels so quickly, but men are so slow. With a little understanding of male psychology and these tried and true tricks at your disposal, you can stop asking questions and start doing what it takes to make him fall in love.

A Little Brain Science

There is an area inside the brain called the frontal lobes where our higher emotions are located. This area matures in women at around 18 years of age, while it can take until 25 years for it to activate in men.

What Does This Mean?

This scientific fact is the reason why women become "love sick" earlier in life than men. It gets worse, because men mature sexually earlier than women. These two factors together explain why guys "only think about one thing" while girls are dreaming of romance.

What's the Solution?

You can't change biology, but as a woman, you can make it work to your advantage. Use your sexuality like a carrot on a string. He is only going to notice you and chase you for one reason. The reason why the girls that are "easy" don't keep a guy for long is because he loses interest as soon as he's satisfied.

How to Keep Him Interested

Guys aren't completely hopeless. The "love triggers" in their brain can be awakened, even well before their 25th birthday. You just have to know what those triggers are. Maturing guys are insecure, no matter what kind of front they put up. They want to be admired and appreciated. More importantly, they want someone they can count on in their lives. When a guy meets a girl who makes him feel secure and confident inside, this triggers the love response.

Show Him Why You're Special

The fastest way to make him fall in love is to show him how much you have to offer him besides sex. Be his friend and confidante and also be yourself. Many girls try to act like others, thinking that will attract men. Doing that will just make you part of the herd. Just be yourself and show him how special you are.

Be Patient

Finally, you're going to have to be patient. All men, at any age, resist commitment. You'll just have to wait for him to realize that you're the best thing that's ever happened to him. As the old advertisement says, "It won't happen overnight, but it will happen."

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